rhetoric, to Miss Aid:  " luv... [ you cannot say, likely infringing some  only ' birds' are allowed to write in their fine writing ' bird' ] ... my role..self appointed, no one else could do it.... helping parents .. both if the two genders...potentially losing their beloved nippers....writing their  story for judgie poos with them chief  input... the actual story has good human bits in it of relative success...i woukd spend DSYS trying to tease out.....but,no,  every single littigant wanted to include long tracts...   about how their ex had ' control' issues... every single one.... control was every other word....  it started as a female trait mid 00s but the blokes caught up... must have been watching the same crap fakebook moaning ...  but it doesnt matter why, but if every single littigant going into courts where the cases are done largely on paper meaning they write their story  in statements prior to hearings ... accuses the other of ' control' ... dont you think a,  it kindof all ' cancels itself out' as in algerbra...b. the judge is right fuckin bored of it...bored to death....and concomiytently c.  if s/he read a statement story leaving out the c word, and instead focusing on the times warring parents manage some humanity..... s/he reads a real honest messy story...as genius Rachel Cusk did in her superb 2011ish  book and radio interviews.... even admit they became a bit loony dervish in the pain of seperation......  the judge may like and respect them... nohhh... am i some fool to have suggested this to a whole generation whom could no longer listen... only parrot ' control' .?"  as of course  was still shoved into every sentence....

good job my rhetoric became a bit more human real and gentler ... and works..a bit...

in the 'moment' ... but they always take revenge....

always

bless their souls  ...even if Mister Martin et al made sure they for some years  are  made only of prickly, bumfluff...

Now i know i must leave.....  theres no hope here...ever